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Iron-clad control is the only thing keeping you safe.
Everything has to be measured. Everything tracked. Everything accounted for.
Nobody can meet you where you are. You can’t let your armor down for a second.
Their frivolous concerns are nothing next to the crushing weight you have to carry.
Everyone has disappointed you, so you stopped asking for help.
But everyone goes through it alone, right?
Everyone else comes before you.
All of your time is spent managing the emotions of the people around you.
You feel others’ pain as if it were your own, but never their joy, laughter, or calm.
And every moment that you try to relax or enjoy yourself feels selfish and fills you with guilt.
But someone will eventually take care of you how you care for them, right?
You feel all alone, even when surrounded by others.
You attempt to fight your isolation by socializing, leaving you lonelier, drained, and emptier.
It’s impossible not to second-guess everything you say or do, sure everyone else is judging you.
Later, you lie awake in bed, anxiously dissecting the minutiae of each interaction as you chastise yourself.
But you’ll find somebody to connect with, right?
Control is always just out of reach.
When you’re able to sit still and rest, your mind keeps whirling through worst-case scenarios and endless “what-ifs.”
Your body feels out of your control, and nobody seems to hear or understand you. The isolation from being your only advocate is crushing.
You don’t know why your mind and body feel so misaligned, but it’s taking a toll on you.
But it’ll sort itself out sooner or later, right?
Life has lost something.
Days blend together, and your routine dictates everything. Nothing excites or motivates you.
Everything you experience is filtered through a haze that deadens color, sound, and feelings.
It’s as though you’re stuck on autopilot and unable to truly engage with anything.
But things will change someday, right?
The burden of this pain and desperation is crushing you.
You have such a tight grasp on your emotions, you’ve forgotten how to feel happiness and peace.
Living in the now is unsafe. You’ve already planned for it. But you don’t know what the future holds, and the idea of not having a plan for it terrifies you.
You can’t share your successes, because they’re only a prelude to the next challenge, the next crisis, the next desperate choice. Every plan you make has to have a contingency for everything, and your mind whirling with all the possibilities fills you with dread.
But, with so much going on in the world, it doesn’t matter, right?
“Things don’t go smooth, Why don’t things ever go smooth?” – Capt. Malcolm Reynolds, Serenity
You’re standing at the edge.
Nothing ever changes, and you wonder the point of pushing forward if you never go anywhere.
You conclude that if everybody else is doing just fine on their own, then you must be the broken one.
It’s you for whom meaningful progress is always out of reach. Useless, alone, unworthy of praise or help.
You are not alone!
You’re not broken; you’re traumatized, you’re grieving, you’re neurodivergent. These things do not define you.
You are worthy, you are capable, and you don’t have to do this by yourself any longer.
Everybody needs somebody, sometimes. A guide, a pathfinder, someone to help you find your North Star.
The healing you deserve is within your grasp; all you have to do is take that first step.
Hi, I’m Fey.
I have lived a varied life. I have been a mother, a wife, a single parent, part of a blended interfaith family, a victim, and a survivor.
I am painfully familiar with the twists and turns life can take, and the lasting impact a hard life leaves behind.
All these experiences have taught me one thing: Nobody should be judged for the things that have hurt them.
The only person able to pass judgment on your life is you, and that judgment should come from a place of kindness and healing.
It’s time to stop tearing yourself down and start building yourself up. Together, let’s forge your path through the dark places and out into the open air again.
I’m here to be your partner and guide as you find your healing, peace, and joy again. I won’t lie – it will be messy, uncomfortable, and challenging – but I promise, it will be worth it.
You deserve help. You deserve healing. You deserve peace. Call or message me now, and take the first step.
In a world of performative cruelty, kindness is punk as fuck. Be punk as fuck.
– Daniel Abraham
What I Offer
Nobody goes it alone.
Together, let’s discover who you are, what truly matters to you, and how to bring that into the light.
You’re not broken, you’re injured, and you can heal from this. Reach out now and discover how.